A moment from one person can make all the difference.
Steve was working at the grocery store today. He’s a bagger and he’s always working to keep things tidy. Steve has the best attitude of anyone I’ve ever met. He’s also a special needs guy.
Today, I was feeling a little wistful because it’s Isla’s last day of preschool before Kindergarten, and as I was walking out of the store, Steve jumped in front of me and high-fived me, saying “today is a beautiful day!”. “Yes, Steve it is”, I replied. He liked that. And it put me in a good, maybe more mindful mood.
Then on my drive, I saw an older lady who was sitting on the ground. A friend was with her, but something didn’t seem right. So I turned around and asked if she was ok and if she needed any help, or even a ride home. They were actually ok, and lived a couple houses down, but, like Steve taking care of me, they were super-thrilled somebody stopped to show they care.
And maybe today they’ll be more mindful of others, too. And so on. To infinity and beyond. I like to imagine a human wave of kindness overtaking the frustration and bad feelings we’re all getting exposed to on a macro level.
Micro matters, too. Thanks, Steve.